ࡱ> PROM bjbj== }3WWln$2<n<zL4666BxTT $ !DDrYrrr4r4rr44n 0&5ٍnl44o04"l"4rnnPreschool Social and Emotional Development Changing patterns of social relations ~infant - toddler ~preschooler  HYPERLINK "javascript:window.opener.immDownload('j0136957','35',escape(window.opener.content.location.href),'1')" \o "Click To Download"  INCLUDEPICTURE "http://dgl.microsoft.com/previews/j013/j0136957(p).gif" \* MERGEFORMATINET  Peer relations change (shift) with time -toddlers & young preschoolers treat others as things -tend to stay near adult in times of stress, crisis, need cuddling -shift adult to peers (2-5) -more reciprocal relationship (praising,sharing, giving in) -as get older begin to see anothers point of view -1- Social Competence Socialization- the process of learning behaviors that are acceptable in society ~values & rules of behavior of the culture of which we are born and will live ~stems from attachment ~teach prosocial behavior. Popular children- 1. Discouraged aggression & antisocial behavior in children 2. Try not to frustrate child, punish little 3. Like children and tell them so Leadership 1. Not stable shifts from moment to moment 2. Leader may lose interest and slip out of role 3. Some assume leadership and no one follows 4. Many children show consistent leadership abilities Successful leaders must know how to listen as well as command  HYPERLINK "javascript:window.opener.immDownload('PE07400_','7',escape(window.opener.content.location.href),'1')" \o "Click To Download"  INCLUDEPICTURE "http://dgl.microsoft.com/previews/PE07/PE07400_(p).gif" \* MERGEFORMATINET  -2- Competence-capable Robert White (1959) ~evolution equipped humans ~leads us to experience & exploration ~results in being better able to adapt and survive Erikson-psychosocial ~competent person takes advantage of opportunities ~ cope difficulties & adjusts to new situations Walter and Scroufe- competence is developmental Stages 1&2 physical & perceptual regularity- basic trust Stages 3 & 4 affective attachment -warmth consistency Stage 5 desire to master environment on own Stage 6 manage impulses & adapt to social roles -3- Self Esteem is heavily rooted in family experiences (Coopersmith) study done with mothers and children *accepting attitude towards child *more affection, more likely to praise child for accomplishments *interested in children and showed it *expected children to have opinions and share them *set fairly strict & clear limits *applied limits consistently *consistent guidance and loving at same time White ( 1975) competent moms produced competent children *enjoy being with children *readily available when needed *environment keeps interest & capabilities of child in mind *respond verbally to childs pre-verbal skills parents of children who are less competent look at child as an intrusion -4- Self Esteem *Children are influenced by the attitudes of adults! Navaho quote: What you think of me Ill think of me What I think of me Ill be -soundest growth allow given time to live it out completely -independency follows dependence those whose dependency need met- most competent Building Your Childs Self Esteem Dr. Patricia H. Berne former nursery teacher What you do to build self-esteem in a child not only affects that child today... but builds a foundation to nurture a person who can one day have a positive influence in the world. You can make a difference in a childs world. -5- Nurturing Success-Building S.E. in Children Patricia Berne PhD Teachers 1. Create an atmosphere of trust 2. Help child to say goodbye 3. Be available to children 4. Keep question open ended 5. Remember names and details about children 6. Be no judgmental 5. Find ways to share laughter 6. Dealing with strong emotions Remember ~ A moment reflection about the wording of a ? ~ Success comes from acknowledging in a positive non-evaluative way ~ Childrens self esteem grows when you want to share something you value with them ~ Self esteem thrives on success ~6~ Aggression Florence Goodenough (1931) age differences in aggression Showed changes between 2-5 1. Older children sulk feel resentful longer 2. Temper tantrums diminish with age, rare after 4 3. Reason changed with age younger 2-3 parent imposed authority Older 4-5 after conflict brother sister or playmate due to shift focus adults to peers 4-5) 4. Older children over 3 retaliated against others if felt got raw end deal ex. toy taken away 5. 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