ࡱ> fhey TNbjbj .t{{F68:\<4& $ g#j&&;v sedsQ0#E<##&&f# :  Case Study of Jim and Kathy Capella University Renee Bynum Abstract This paper addresses the marital case study of Jim and Kathy. The couples history and present marital issues will be examined using the Bowen family systems theory. It will include the history and concepts of the Bowen theory as well as interventions that can be used. A sample of a first session transcript is provided in which the theoretical framework will be utilized in identifying how this theory can address the unique needs of this couple. According to Dr. Murrey Bowen, the family system is one that is made up of roles that are played by each individual. In this system, patterns of behavior amongst members can cause either balance or dysfunction (Genpro, 2011). The case of Jim and Kathy will be examined using Bowens theory, which identifies eight concepts that interlock within the system as a way to understand how the functioning developed and continues within Jim and Kathys family system. History Murrey Bowen, trained as a psychiatrist began working with schizophrenic patients at the Menninger Clinic in the 1940s where he began incorporating the mothers of his patients in the investigation and treatment of his clients. During this time, Murrey began focusing more on the family systems moving away from the individual focus (Brown, 1999). By 1962 Bowens research extended across generations. Bowens theory did not focus on pathology rather it focused on common patterns of, human emotional systems (Brown, 1999). By 1966, he began publishing his theory about the family as a system. He realized how the histories of our families values, experiences and thoughts influences present and future generations by being passed down with each generation. Concepts Bowenian theory focuses on the idea of togetherness and individuality. If an individual is together to much the family members may become fused thus lacking in a sense of self and individuality. In contrast, if one is too independent ones individuality can create a sense of distance causing estrangement from the family. Bowenian theory focuses on eight concepts to understanding the familys current functioning and development of each family member. These eight interlocking concepts are Differentiation of Self, Triangles, The Nuclear Family Emotional Processes, The Family Projection Process, The Multigenerational Transmission Process, Sibling Position, Emotional Cutoff, and Societal Emotional Processes. Role of Counselor The focus of the counselor who utilizes Bowen therapy is one that seeks to find patterns within the family system in order to encourage and develop stronger and healthy relationships among its members as a way to lower anxiety caused by the emotional turmoil of the family. The counselor first seeks to develop a calmer environment in which to begin to research and investigate the broader or nuclear family systems that are currently occurring. The counselor will identify intergenerational beliefs that are affecting the family and how the histories of these value systems continue to develop with each generation. It is crucial that the counselor stay neutral as to avoid becoming triangulated with family members. Bowen believed that, the successful introduction of a significant other person into an anxious or disturbed relationship system has the capacity to modify the relationships within the system (Titelman, 1998). Interventions Researching the genograms is an important assessment tool and intervention. An intervention is through identifying patterns of behaviors that have continued over generations and identifying ways to prevent current behaviors in the family. Process questions are a key factor when helping the client to identify current patterns in their relationship as a reflection of relationships within their childhood homes. Bowen theory does not focus on pathology rather it seeks to identify what is normal within the family for optimum functioning. Differentiation allows member to be more self-reliant and less dependent on other members of their families. Family members who have a high level of differentiation are more confident and independent without being out of contact (Becvar & Becvar, 2009). Jim: Case study Jim is a 28-year-old male, married with one child, Johnny who is 3. Jim is a used car salesman and owns his own business for the last four years. Jim drinks often (about 4 days of week) with an average of six beers each evening, goes out with the guys, and states he is stressed and this is a way for him to relax. Jim is often moody and irritable when he is at home. Jim and Kathy have been married for two years and have one child togethe. Kathy has given Jim the ultimatum of divorce in order to get him to attend family counseling. Kathy states that since Johnny has been born Jim is increasingly home less often and their communication is so limited that she often feels like a single parent. Kathy has stated that the man she married was one that was outgoing, relaxed and always communicative. Kathy has expressed that she often wonders if Jim is cheating as their romantic relations has decreased immensely and he is often preoccupied or one the phone with what he states is business calls. Kathy wonders if he is feeling less attracted to her because she has gained some weight and no longer works. Kathy is concerned that Jims drinking and irritability are affecting Johnny in a negative way as she states that Johnny is becoming needier with her and often cries when she leaves, which was not an issue in the past. Jim is reluctant to go to counseling, due to Kathys ultimatum. Jim feels that Kathy is overreacting and has stated that he is very busy and stressed as the economy has been rough this last year. Jim has stated that Kathy just has too much time on her hands and does not realize how much work goes into having your own business. Jim does not feel that they need therapy and states that his wife is so dramatic all the time. Jim comes from a divorced family with an alcoholic mother and a workaholic father. Jims mother has been in many relationships and re-married three times. Jims mother continually calls Jim to help her with money, as she does not work. Jim and his father see each other a few times a year, usually during the holidays. Theory: Bowen Family Systems Bowen Family Systems identifies the importance of the family as an emotional system in the here-and-now while keeping in mind the importance of the influence of the extended family both dead and alive (Becvar & Becvar, 2009). This system looks at both the individuality of a person, and the person within the family unit. In Bowenian theory, the individual is not seen in isolation rather it is one of interconnectedness. Bowenian theory consists of eight interlocking concepts, differentiation of self, emotional system of the nuclear family, triangles, family projection process, multigenerational transmission process, emotional cutoff, sibling position, and the societal emotional process. The first key concept with this theory is, differentiation of self in which the individual has their own beliefs and opinions while keeping their emotional connection with members of their family. Differentiation of self is one that distinguishes between those who are infused and those who are differentiated (Becvar & Becvar, 2009). The ideal position is one of differentiation that consists of individual who transcends his or her own emotions as well as those within the family system. This allows for an individual who is more flexible, adaptable and self-sufficient (Becvar & Becvar, 2009). The less desirable fused or pseudo-self is an individual who often makes choices due to emotional pressure outside themselves and who is dependent on others. Secondly, the emotional system of the family is both, universal and transgenerational and addresses how past generations belief systems affect the current family unit. If the individual is fused than the multigenerational process will continue with each generation unless ones unresolved emotional attachments and cutoffs are successfully dealt with (Becvar & Becvar, 2009) Third, triangles, in which a third person is able to balance the system out due to allowing more tension in the system, although this creates two people being stronger pushing the third individual out. This two-person dyad often creates the third person to become triangulated, which increases the anxiety between the members thus preventing a resolution. Fourth, family projection process, is where the parents lack in differentiation with their children often leading to high levels of anxiety which may produce marital conflicts. These conflicts often continue to build anxiety thus continuing the conflicts. Fifth, is the multigenerational transmission process in which the emotional processes over the generations are transmitted to the present functioning of the family. Sixth, emotional cutoff is when a family member cuts off emotional contact with family members to address unresolved emotional issues. Seventh, sibling position is one in which research has proven that those in same sibling position predictably have important common characteristics (Bowen). Lastly, is the societal emotional process, which addresses ones behavior on the societal level. The culture that an individual lives in is important as the individual is not just within the confines of the family unit. In utilizing, Bowens theory Jim and Kathy will begin to understand how their intergenerational emotional system pertains to their current situation. According to Kathy, Jim is drinking excessively while becoming more detached from her. Jim feels less concerned and seems to feel that Kathy has no reason to think the way she does, as he sees nothing wrong in his behaviors. The role of the therapist is one that seeks to investigate while staying differentiated from the clients to help them take responsibility for their actions and begin to learn to resolve issues within the family unit. It is crucial that the therapist stay neutral and avoid becoming enmeshed within the familys emotions by keeping a neutral position. This system allows the therapist to think in terms of patterns and systems rather than the emotionality of family. Transcription of therapist's half of the interview Therapist: Hello, Jim and Kathy. Can you tell me whats going on in your relationship right now? Jim: I think Kathy is insecure and concerned about me cheating. Thats crazy. Im under a lot of pressure and I need to go with the guys and have a few drinks. Model concept: This question helps to identify the problem and allows for identification of, Differentiation of self (Gephart, 2010). Therapist: Kathy what are you most concerned about? Kathy: I dont understand why hes not at home, maybe he doesnt want to be home. When he is, he is nasty and moody. Hes so negative; I dont know what to do. Model concept: This identifies how Kathy sees the drinking behavior and how it is affecting their relationship, identifying the emotional systems working in the family. Therapist: Can you give me an example of what made you the most upset/concerned? Kathy: Why is he so moody? He becomes so defensive about his drinking. He thinks its normal. Model concept: Another part of the emotional system in which Kathy identifies what she feels Jim values. She identifies drinking as a problem unlike Jim who she feels values drinking. This identifies the anxiety Kathy has about Jims drinking behavior. Therapist: How do you see your drinking behavior? Jim: No, problem. I can stop it if I want to. I dont know what the big deal is; I mean if I want a few beers, I dont think that I have a problem. I think Kathy has a problem, she is controlling. Model concept: This question allows for self-reflection to see if Jim identifies how his behaviors is affecting the relationship with his wife. Therapist: What do you think? Kathy: Im concerned with his drinking because his mother drinks and I dont want that for our family. Im scared he will go down the road that his mom has. There is no reason why he is not going down that road. He doesnt want to be with me and his son who needs his father. He would rather be out with the guys. Model concept: This identifies a possible multigenerational transmission process in which Jims drinking behavior and mothers history are currently working in his martial affairs (Gephart, 2010). Therapist: Did you know Kathy felt this way? Jim: No, I guess I can see why now. I told her she has nothing to worry about though. I can control it however, my mother calls for money and cant take care of herself. My moms problems cause problems between us. Therapist: What problems? Jim: Financial problems, economy problems. Money is not plentiful and we dont have a lot of money. Kathy doesnt understand and thinks I perpetuate the problem. I am just worried about my mother. Model concept: Process questions will help Kathy to identify how she feels about his behavior while expressing her concern and connecting to family history of alcoholism. Therapist: How would you see mom as taking care of her? Jim: Stop drinking and be a part of our lives. Help Kathy out and Kathy help mom. And maybe she can help us out. I would, I would hope he drinking would seize ad be more involved with us. Model concept: Process questions help Jim to express his feelings that are identified with his mothers current behaviors and how it affects him and his family. Therapist: Can you express it in a different way? Jim: She has nothing to worry about. Shes dramatic, I dont know what else to do. Model concept: This identifies an emotional cut-off occurring in which Jim begins to avoid Kathys concerns. Therapist: Are you ignoring Kathys concerns because you are not sure how to express it in a different way? Jim: I didnt think of it like that. I dont mean to hurt her. Model concept: Process questions can be used to help an individual see another way to address a situation. Therapist: Kathy, what do you want from Jim? Kathy: I want him to spend time with me and Johnny having a family dinner and show interest in us. He says he does but his actions dont show it. Hes not ready to change. And I dont have a problem. Maybe if I had a night a week off and he take care of Johnny. Im so lost. Model concept: Process questions in which Kathy identifies how she feels will allow Jim to really hear how she feels about him not being home. Therapist: Have you expressed a night off? Kathy: Ive asked and pleaded, nothing changes. I am worried he will cheat. Therapist: How do you see this happening? Jim: As long as she doesnt nag I guess I could stay with Johnny and let her have a night off. Model concept: Allows Jim to express how he feels using I statements and help identify a new behavior in which the client can see how the process goes. Therapist: What do you need to express yourself differently? Jim: After I walk into the door it would be nice if she would ask me how my day was, show that she cares. Model concept: I statements allows Jim to express his needs in the relationship. Therapist: I think we were able to openly express some real concern here today and would like to ask you to do some homework. Please go home and Kathy take time to ask Jim about his day and listen to what he has to say and Jim try to be home for dinner and begin review with Kathy what her and Johnny did during the day as a way to validate her as she did you earlier. Also, Kathy can ask Jim to take some time off and the two of you talk about a day where both of you can plan for her time off. Next week we will go over what occurred during the week. In Jim and Kathys case, the lack of communication, alcohol use and fused relationship with Jims mother seems to have created a pattern of dysfunction that continues in this relationship. Jims mother has transmitted her emotional problems to him in that he is in constant need to satisfy her needs and deals with his issues by drinking as his mother did throughout his childhood. Jim differentiation of self seems to be fused with his mother as he continues to seek her approval and acceptance leading to marital conflict and dysfunction. In utilizing Bowen theory, the therapist will develop a genogram, which will help to identify multigenerational patterns and dysfunction from childhood that may have developed in Jim and Kathys marriage. By developing process questions, the clients will be able to explore new ways of identifying the problem and ways to address it. The use of I statement will allow them to express their feelings in a constructive way allowing for new ways of communicating amongst family members. These interventions can be identified in the first session with the couple which has allowed them to begin the process of developing new ways to address their current family system functioning. Reference Becvar, S., D. & Becvar, J., R. (2009). Family therapy a systemic integration 7th edition. Pearson Education Inc, Boston, MA. Bowen theory. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.thebowencenter.org/pages/conceptsep.html Brown, J. (1999). Bowen family system theory and practice: illustration and critique. Education UPDATE, 20(2), 94-103. Retrieved from http://www.anzjft.com/pages/articles/78.pdf. Gehart, D. (2010). 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