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THE CARING BEHAVIORImp FORMCHECKBOX Massage my back, legs, or feet FORMCHECKBOX Tell me you love me FORMCHECKBOX Tell me you want to make love FORMCHECKBOX Tell me you like making love with me FORMCHECKBOX Touch me playfully and fondly in intimate places FORMCHECKBOX Ask if I want anything from the store FORMCHECKBOX Ask if you can pick up something for me on your way home FORMCHECKBOX Give me a card FORMCHECKBOX Flowers FORMCHECKBOX Little presents FORMCHECKBOX Call me from work to say I love you FORMCHECKBOX Lean against me when we are watching tv FORMCHECKBOX Compliment me on the way I look FORMCHECKBOX Just listen to me when I ask that is all you do FORMCHECKBOX Kiss me for 10 seconds or more as you leave me and as you return and when we get up or go to bed FORMCHECKBOX Write me a love letter once in a while FORMCHECKBOX Propose a day trip for us to go on FORMCHECKBOX Hold my hand wherever we go FORMCHECKBOX Buy me a massage FORMCHECKBOX Read a relationship book aloud with me, discuss it FORMCHECKBOX Take a loving shower with me FORMCHECKBOX Take a shower with me and wash and dry me FORMCHECKBOX Take a bath with me FORMCHECKBOX Make out in the back seat of the car FORMCHECKBOX Oral sex FORMCHECKBOX Eating dinner together and talking FORMCHECKBOX Take a walk together FORMCHECKBOX Cook me a good dinner FORMCHECKBOX Have a Loving Day (or day) FORMCHECKBOX Shave on a day off, for me FORMCHECKBOX Do a Ill tell you what feels good session that is exclusively focused on me. FORMCHECKBOX Have me do do a Ill tell you what feels good session for you. FORMCHECKBOX Do a touching making love without intercourse. FORMCHECKBOX Try something new in love making FORMCHECKBOX Go to a marriage counselor FORMCHECKBOX Read a relationship book for us. Discuss it. FORMCHECKBOX Do exercises in a relationship book together. FORMCHECKBOX Take a relationship workshop every ________ FORMCHECKBOX Take me to a movie FORMCHECKBOX Take me for a drive in the country or somewhere fun FORMCHECKBOX Touch me softly on the face FORMCHECKBOX Kiss my eyelids gently and lovingly FORMCHECKBOX Tell me something that you want. FORMCHECKBOX Take me out to coffee. FORMCHECKBOX Go mall shopping with me. FORMCHECKBOX Undress me, slowly and lovingly FORMCHECKBOX Give me a compliment about some quality of mine FORMCHECKBOX Take me out to dinner FORMCHECKBOX Take me to church FORMCHECKBOX Go with me and sit in the bookstore with me FORMCHECKBOX Watch funny movies together FORMCHECKBOX Tell me you love me the way I am. FORMCHECKBOX Do a household duty that is not yours. FORMCHECKBOX Clean up after yourself FORMCHECKBOX Clean the garage together FORMCHECKBOX Do some task together that is for both of us, or the house, or whatever. FORMCHECKBOX Sit down with me to discuss the finances FORMCHECKBOX Go through the activities list and decide what we both can do together FORMCHECKBOX Go to a community event with me FORMCHECKBOX Take an overnight trip with me, you originate idea FORMCHECKBOX Talk about our day, listen to me and ask questions FORMCHECKBOX Write a little note to me, on anything FORMCHECKBOX Take a big trip with me twice a year. FORMCHECKBOX Have lunch together, out.  FORMCHECKBOX Go dancing, have a romantic evening FORMCHECKBOX Do a repair communication where you think it would be helpful to me FORMCHECKBOX Do a Couples Council with me every week. FORMCHECKBOX Plan the week, month, year with me. FORMCHECKBOX Make a special meal for me. FORMCHECKBOX Buy me an inspirational or fun book. FORMCHECKBOX Holding each other in bed for at least a few minutes FORMCHECKBOX Sleeping with your head on my shoulder for a while FORMCHECKBOX Stroking and touching me even when we arent going to go any further FORMCHECKBOX Make breakfast for me. FORMCHECKBOX Bring me a glass of juice when I am still in bed. FORMCHECKBOX Make out with me. FORMCHECKBOX Stroking my stomach FORMCHECKBOX Do a 20 minute dialog with me. FORMCHECKBOX Request, in a loving supportive way, a behavior change youd like me to do FORMCHECKBOX Do an exercise with me from a relationship book. FORMCHECKBOX Share with me something you are reading that is interesting or meaningful to you. 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