ࡱ> dfcq` 0?bjbjqPqP 4b::7L<,v88888888+++++++$-h/+y88yy+88+%%%y88+%y+%%:),g*8,  # * q+$+0,*R0$v0g*g*"0*8hJ%<&S888++3%X888,yyyy@d@  GREETING Welcome family and friends. Bruce and Staci are truly happy that so many of you who mean so much to them are here to share and celebrate this, their wedding day. I welcome you all and bless you with these words: Blessed be you who have come here in dedication to all that is loving, good and sacred. We bless you and welcome you in joy. May the Source of life sustain you. May all that is noble and true in the universe inspire your lives together and bring peace to all humankind. Memorial Let us take a moment at this time to remember special loved ones, who although no longer here in body, have joined us today in spirit, with a moment of silence, A-main. Memorial names: Beyla mackoFoti, Andrea Herzer, bruces sister, grandparents richard, Marjorie Herzer , and jim Flynn, Dick & Marjorie Herzer. Ketubah Ceremony done before the ceremony. I would like to draw your attention to Bruce and Stacis ketubah, that they signed prior to the ceremony. The ketubah originally was used as a contract between bride and groom. It provided for each persons financial, and conjugal obligations, but today, the wording that is chosen is more egalitarian, and represents more of the ongoing commitment every day that in our busy lives, we sometimes forget to honor. Bruce and Staci have chosen to share their ketubah with all of you, because when G-d presented Moses with the 613 commandments, one of them was to celebrate with bride and groom. By honoring this commitment, and being witness to their declaration of their promises to each other for the rest of their lives, you are fulfilling G-ds commandment along with their commitment to each other. Chuppa This Chuppa is understood as a sign of Gods presence at this wedding, just as God will be present in the home being established by you, today, under this canopy. You will notice that this Chuppa has no walls. This reminds us of the tent of our Patriarch Abraham, who was known for his kindness and hospitality, whose open tent flaps always welcomed visitors. Bruce and Staci, you each bring different attributes with you to this Chuppa. This Chuppah symbolizes the Shelter or Home that the two of you have elected to create as Husband and Wife, from this day forward. In your home, it will be important to you to always preserve and cherish the unique differences that make each of you who you are, while creating new and joyous traditions to take with you through the rest of your life. We pray that your home, like our Patriarch Abraham's home, shall always be filled with JOY, Hospitality and Abundance. Different backgrounds come together As we begin this ceremony this evening, it is important that you all know that Bruce and Staci have created this ceremony, completely. From the moment we began planning, it was important for them to choose just the right words that would appropriately pay tribute to each of them as individuals, now coming together as one couple. Bruce and Staci have woven threads of two traditions, faiths, and cultures, into a magnificent tapestry that represent who they are together. They wish to share this ceremony with you, so you share every bit of their joy in coming together, and their hopes for their future together. Wine Ceremony (Kiddush) Wine is a symbol of Joy. This cup of wine is symbolic of the cup of life. As you share the one cup of wine, you undertake to share all that the future may bring. All the sweetness lifes cup may hold for you should be sweeter, because you drink it together. Whatever drops of bitterness it may contain should be less bitter because you share them. As I recite the blessing over the wine, we pray that G-d will bestow fullness of joy upon you. Baruch Ata Adonai, eloheinu melech haolam, borei pri hagafen Reading I Barbara Payton, Corinthians 13 Reading II Meredith Moran (Staceys friend) Apache Wedding Poem Bruce and Staci have chosen a UNITY CANDLE, to signify their coming together as a married couple, a component of the wedding ceremony that symbolizes the transformation of two separate lives into one. From every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven. And when two souls that are destined to be together find each other, their streams of light flow together, and a single brighter light goes forth from their united being. (mothers light the candles, and pass them to children) As you light your separate candles, you honor your separate selves, your uniqueness and your autonomy. This candle represents the light of your being: your special talents, needs, visions, and gifts all that makes you who you are, you honor with this flame. Together, they take their separate flames and light the 3rd candle of union As you bend your flames to light the 3rd candle, you celebrate the power of separate lights to ignite a common flame of passion and commitment and to come together as one. May the world that Staci and Bruce create this day be one of truth and light, happiness and honesty, joy, purpose, and peace. Amen. Shehecheyanu On all first occasions or to acknowledge a new experience, it is our Jewish custom to recite a blessing known as Shehecheyanu. Baruch ata Adonai, eloheinu melech haolam, shhecheyiyanu, V Kiyimanu, V hig iyanu, Lazman Hazeh. A-Main Cantors comments When I first met Bruce and Staci, the first thing that impressed me was how naturally they blended together, and how genuine, and down to earth they both were. I immediately learned that they were a couple committed to each others happiness, and somehow I understood that while they came from totally different backgrounds, they seemed to be cut from the same cloth. I also learned that they were one of the hardest working, most diligent couples dedicated not only to earning the salary that comes with their jobs, but using those jobs to make a profound difference in the world, and Im positive they both will in their own ways. When I spoke to Bruce and Staci about their childhood memories, it seemed that even though they come from different backgrounds, and cultures, their childhood memories were similar. They each lived simple lives, but had loving memories of great parental relationships, great friends, a love for their activities, siblings, and family. They each learned the most respectable work ethic, and together have learned to love and support each other through whatever challenges they have faced. Both Bruce and Staci share a deep commitment to making the important people in their lives happy and comfortable, and they especially share the commitment to do the same for each other. When I spoke to Staci and Bruce about each other, and their relationship together, and with their families as a couple, I was struck by how completely similar each of their perspectives were towards their lives together, and what meant the most to both of them. First, I was struck by the completely simple calm, loving peace that existed among them. We had lunch together in Raleigh, that day, and walking out of the coffee shop Staci leaned in to me, and asked me Isnt he SO cute? And he was. This was a couple that truly loved one another, and their love was contagious. You caught it just from being around them. Unpretentious, hard working, spiritual, sensitive, and compassionate are all characteristics that Bruce and Staci exude. As our conversations continued, I asked them each what was their most memorable experience that defined them as a couple. Naturally, they both immediately shared the same story, even though our conversations were completely private and separate. Their amazing travel experiences had both brought them so much closer together as a couple, and they were the experiences that made two people one. It was in these travels that they learned how to work together, support each other, learn how to work through obstacles together, and through all of these challenges and experiences, they learned everything they needed to become a unified couple, dedicated to nurturing each other, and themselves together, to create the most glorious partnership. Then, I asked each of them to talk about the other, I heard the most loving things. Staci, Bruce knows you have the most amazing mind, and intelligence, but he also appreciates your bubbly, outgoing personality, your love for your family, and the compassion you show for others. Bruce, staci loves your kind hearted, loving nature, and your dedication to make a difference in your environment, and in the world. You both share the desire to welcome children into your lives, and teach them how to be responsible, loving people, more consumed with being good people who make a difference in the world, rather than having and owning things, because you know that things dont make the difference to anyone. Anyone who knows each of you, knows that you came from loving families who were committed to your happiness every moment of your life. Through planning your wedding, I also had the opportunity to really get to know Stacis Mom, Susan, and grandmother, Edith. It was a beautiful, connecting moment when I met them both at the hospital that day, and prayed for Ediths recovery and release from the hospital. I very quickly learned that planning this wedding was an act of love from Susan. This was NOT about how much she could have, but how much she could do, and how she could use this process to ultimately show Staci her support for her relationship with Bruce, to bring them even closer together, and to be a loving, supportive Mother to Staci, because thats just naturally what a mother should do. Her motivations were pure, and they have culminated today in a magnificent, but warm and loving experience we are all a part of. I am personally thankful for having the opportunity to know Bruce and Staci, and consider my life to be even richer for having known them, and their beautiful families. So, this is what love is really all about. A harmonious partnership, where ones commitment to the others happiness is paramount to both people. Bruce and Staci have proven this with their wedding, and in their every day lives. , and Im sure they will continue to live a life dedicated to each others happiness, and making a difference. I pray you continue to create a loving home, a peaceful place, where friends and family can gather and join you, as you share the beautiful lives you have created, from this day forward for the rest of your lives. VOWS I love you, you are my best friend and my soulmate; you are the joy and the harmony in my life. Today as I give you my heart and my hand in marriage, I promise: To support, provide for, cherish and honor you. To celebrate with you in times of joy and to comfort you in times of sorrow. To care for you and strive always to be sensitive to your needs. To respect our differences, to inspire you, and to nurture you as we grow together through all the seasons of our lives. Rings Dear God, bless and sanctify the love that Bruce and Staci have for each other. May their rings always be a symbol of their true faith in each other and always remind them of their love. The wearing of a wedding ring is the outer sign of your inner commitment. It says to all the world, Ani ldodi, vdodi li - "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine." We place the wedding band on our hands in two stages: First it is placed on the right forefinger, and then it is moved to the traditional ring finger of the left hand. We do this for two reasons. The first is that marriage is a free will act of commitment. You freely choose to be each with the other. The second reason is that the forefinger of the right hand is called the heart finger, for a vein runs from that finger directly to the heart. Thus, when your rings are exchanged, you are in fact speaking Heart to Heart, and thus, it is appropriate that the ring touch the heart finger. Bruce, place this ring on your bride's right forefinger and recite the words that will establish your covenant of marriage: Bruce reads vows Staci please take this ring and place it on Bruces right forefinger recite the words that will confirm your covenant of marriage: Staci reads vows Now , each of you take the ring from your right forefinger, and while moving it to your ring finger on your left hands, Let each of us assembled here today offer a prayer and ask God to bless this union of Bruce and Staci. AMEN Birkat Kohanim It is traditional at a Jewish wedding for the Rabbi to bless the groom and bride. I would like to do so, but with a contemporary song representing the Priestly blessing YVRECHCHA (Priestly Blessing) Yvarechcha Adonai vyishmrecha May God bless you with good and keep you safe Ya-eir Adonai panav eilecha vichuneka May God be with you and be kind to you Yisa Adonai panav, panav eilecha Vyaseim lcha shalom, shalom Yisa Adonai panav, panav eilecha Vyaseim lcha shalom, shalom May you always know that God is close And may God give you the gift, the gift of peace May you always know that God is close And may God give you the gift, the gift of peace Breaking the Glass I will provide light bulb In concluding our ceremony, I remind you that like glass, life is fragile and you must treat your relationship with special care, for like glass, it is strong enough to hold your love, yet fragile enough to break. And when the glass is now shattered, it is a cue for all of those present to make your joy felt-as a great wave of exultation, by shouting Mazel Tov. (break glass) PRONOUNCEMENT: Bruce & Staci, "IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AS WITNESSES, YOU HAVE SPOKEN THE WORDS AND PERFORMED THE RITES WHICH UNITE YOUR LIVES. THEREFORE, IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE TRADITIONS OF THE FAITH OF THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL, AND THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF FLORIDA, I NOW DECLARE YOU, Bruce & Staci, HUSBAND AND WIFE. Bruce, you may now kiss your bride. DEAR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, MAY I NOW PRESENT TO YOU, MR. AND MRS. 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